On 2nd March 2013, I
met a girl online on a website meant to chat with strangers. I thought she was
just another girl.But she seemed nice. She was a medical student and told about
her experience dealing with patients. During the conversation she told a lot
about herself and I too confided a lot of personal info to her.
During that time I never asked strangers for contact details
on that website. Till the
end I never thought we would land up becoming friends. She seemed nice and I
asked her if we could keep in touch beyond the site and she agreed. She shared
her Skype id and I added her. That night she sent 3 of her pics.It didn’t
impress me though.
The following day
we chatted a lot. She probably liked that I was not a pervert like other guys. She
asked me what I do I do, I jokingly said I was a masseur. She really believed. I
kept joking with her and she innocently believed. But what I liked the most was
she respected me even though I said I was an ordinary masseur. But end of the
day I told her I wasn't a masseur at all. She got really upset that I lied to
her. I felt bad for making such a joke, I never lied to her again.
From that day, I was honest to her.
On the third day, she
said she likes me. I was quite surprised. We chatted every single day from March
2nd to Aug 8 without a break. No matter which country I was in, no matter which
exam she had, we texted atleast for few minutes.She made me feel really special.
I travelled to different cities, Netherlands and Italy but I
always messaged her before the clock turn 12. Over time she sent about 150 pics
of herself and her family.
By August
I really felt she loved me because she valued me so much. I kept telling her
things won’t work out; she should not sacrifice by moving to Germany. Besides,
her medical degree is not valid in Germany. All she said was "we are in
god's hands. Don’t worry".
After a month
I shared my pics too. I shared about 5 pics I guess. But she kept on sending
her pics. I got to know who her parents, aunts, friends and everybody are. There
were times when her friends were invited home for dinner and she kept messaging
me instead of talking to them. She had final exams in August and I prayed for
her a lot. I felt tensed for her exams. She graduated and she invited her
friends on her graduation day...
That's when I felt like going to meet her. I asked if she
would invite me, she said no, she would be tensed to introduce me to her
parents. She lived close to Venice. I planned to meet her in Venice to see how
she is. I told my mother and sis about her. The moment she knew I was seriously
ready to meet her in Venice, she started acting differently. She confessed that
she chatted with me just to pass time. She said that it was a diversion for her
mind. And she flirted just for fun because every boy and girl in Italy behaves THAT
WAY!!!
It was a shock of my life!!!
I had the whole chat history from day one (it’s few hundreds
of pages), I showed her that and asked if all that was lie.
She said yes!
I had never spoken to her nor met her but she made me feel
special and I wanted to go meet her and get to know her. I couldn’t believe
what she did so I made fake Skype ids to test her -
3 as girls
3 as boys
She didn't accept any of the 3 girls. But accepted all 3 guys!!!
I think she was probably bored. To one guy she said she was ‘happily’
single, second guy – ‘sadly’ single, to third guy she said she was in a ‘complicated
relationship’.
On my real profile, she had told me she had an ex- boyfriend
- a medical student.
But to one of my fake profiles, she said she had another ex
who had a daughter and was a lawyer (I knew she hated ‘lawyers’ but she never
told me why). She told truth in parts to all the guys.
I used all the info like a puzzle and got to know her.
Months later she blocked all the fake guys and still has
contact with me!!! She has also joined her 1st ex again. (I have his pic too).
She celebrated her birthday on 16th Nov. I wished
her and she said her dad was in the hospital. And I prayed for him. She loves
her family a lot. Don’t know why I still have a soft corner for her. She is
guilty too and regularly messages me. I forgave her completely, and now she is
my good friend. I know her since 2.5 yrs now. …
I have over 150 pics of her. I sometimes feel like deleting them.
She hurt me a lot. I never thought girls like that exist but I am curious to
know how her life progresses. So I can’t remove her…ever!!!
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Anonymous, Germany
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